Bom, é uma receita muito velha, eficiente desde os tempo mais remotos para que jovens não estraguem suas vidas. É uma receita em certo sentido "eterna", desde que Deus é pai.
A receita é: presença dos pais no dia a dia dos filhos. Não é "presença qualitativa", em poucos momentos, nos fins de semana. É presença muito quantitativa, muitas horas. Em casa e na escola.
Daí, os pais perguntam: "Como vou fazer isso se tenho de trabalhar? Se moro em cidade grande? Se chego cansado em casa?...
Pois é, a receita da Islândia, envolve uma mudança radical na família, no salário mínimo, nas escolas...Mas é o caminho que se vence as drogas.
O site da Aleteia fala que a Islândia começou a mudar para melhor depois que viu uma palestra do psicólogo americano Harvey Milkman, mas a receita dele é bem antiga.
Vejam o texto do Aleteia.
Iceland
knows the secret to stopping teen substance abuse — Is anyone paying attention?
In the past 20 years, teen
alcohol and drug abuse plummeted among Icelandic youth... but why?
In the past 20 years, Iceland’s rates of teen
drinking, smoking, and drug use rates have drastically plummeted. Mosaic Science reports that in 1998, the percentage of 14- to 16-year-olds who reported
being drunk in the previous month was 42 percent and by 2016, it was just
5 percent. Cigarette smoking went from 23 percent to 3 percent, and
using cannabis from 17 percent to 7 percent. The secret? Common sense
solutions, inspired by fresh data, and rooted in the community and the family.
Iceland’s success actually began in the US, with an
American psychology professor named Harvey Milkman. He studied drug use in the
1970s and in his doctoral dissertation concluded that the drugs people choose
are based on how they prefer to deal with stress. This led him to ask why
people continue with substance abuse, and he later went on to develop the idea
that people were becoming addicted to what was happening in their brains.
“People can get addicted to drink, cars, money, sex, calories, cocaine –
whatever,” says Milkman. “The idea of behavioral addiction became our
trademark.”
In 1991, Milkman was invited to Iceland to discuss
his work and ideas and became a consultant to the first residential drug
treatment center for teens in Iceland. He befriended another like-minded
psychologist named Gudberg Jónsson, and a young researcher named Inga Dóra
Sigfúsdóttir was drawn to their work. Sigfúsdóttir became interested in
whether you could stop kids drinking or taking drugs in the first place by
creating healthy alternatives.
So in 1992, students aged 14 to 16 in every
Icelandic school filled out a questionnaire, and it was repeated in 1995 and
1997. The survey allowed kids to be anonymous and asked about
alcohol, cigarette and cannabis use. It also asked about time spent with
parents and participation in after-school activities.
The results were alarming, and revealed stark
differences between kids who took up drugs and alcohol and those who
didn’t. Participating in sports 3 to 4 times per week was a huge factor in low
substance abuse, as was how much time kids spent with their parents during
the week. Feeling cared about at school, and not being outside in the evenings,
were also big factors.
Young people were already being educated about
substance abuse and prevention, but it didn’t seem to be making
much difference. It was time for a new approach.
Fortunately, the mayor of Reykjavik was also
interested in trying something new and many parents felt the same. So using the
survey results, in conjunction with the help of researchers and the cooperation
of teachers, parents, and community leaders, a new national plan was introduced
called “Youth in Iceland.” Emma young at Mosaic
Science writes:
Laws were changed. It became illegal to buy tobacco
under the age of 18 and alcohol under the age of 20, and tobacco and alcohol
advertising was banned. Links between parents and school were strengthened
through parental organizations which by law had to be established in every
school, along with school councils with parent representatives. Parents were
encouraged to attend talks on the importance of spending a quantity of time
with their children rather than occasional “quality time,” on talking to their
kids about their lives, on knowing who their kids were friends with, and on
keeping their children home in the evenings.
A law was also passed prohibiting children aged
between 13 and 16 from being outside after 10 p.m. in winter and midnight in
summer. It’s still in effect today.
Additionally, an umbrella parental organization
called “Home and School” was introduced, which included agreements for parents
to sign. These are dependent on the particular group and age of the kids. For
example, parents can pledge to not to allow their kids to have unsupervised
parties, and not to buy alcohol for minors.
“These agreements educate parents but also help to
strengthen their authority in the home, argues Hrefna
Sigurjónsdóttir, director of Home and School. “Then it becomes harder
to use the oldest excuse in the book: ‘But everybody else can!’”
State funding was increased for organized sports,
music, art, dance, and various kinds of clubs and activities. Low-income
families began receiving help to take part.
The studies continue to this day so there is
up-to-date data to rely on. In addition to the drastic reductions in drug and
alcohol use, the amount of time teens say they spent with their parents almost
doubled between 1997 and 2012.
Some places in Europe have adopted aspects of
Iceland’s program, with success. But no where has seen the kind of improvements
as Iceland and there are many reasons for that. Milkman has learned that even
the best of programs are not always sustained or expanded:
“With Project Self-Discovery, it seemed like we had
the best program in the world,” he says. “I was invited to the White House
twice. It won national awards. I was thinking: this will be replicated in every
town and village. But it wasn’t.”
He believes it’s because you “can’t prescribe a
generic model to every community because they don’t all have the same
resources.” Any efforts to do what Iceland has done depends on what already
exists. “You have to rely on the resources of the community,” he says.
And there is also the question of the relationship
between the citizens and the state, as well as how to involved all the
different players involved: government, funders, parents, teachers, and
academics. Iceland shows it is possible for all to work together in an
effective way. But while Iceland’s approach may be based in common sense drawn
from data, with a buy-in from all involved, all the factors must come together
in just the right way.
In an article
Milkman wrote in the Huffington Post last year, he outlines the reasons
he thinks we are missing the mark in the United States. Across the
country there are thousands of “evidence-based” prevention programs
but substance abuse among teens and young adults remains
high. Milkman says if the US wants to replicate what’s happened in
Iceland, here’s what we should do:
• Minimize unsupervised adolescent time periods
• Create more activity, frequently and in
structured ways
• Delay ‘first drink’ onset
• Base your efforts at a community level – where
things can get done, practically and quickly
• Get your presidents and elected leadership to
campaign for this venture
Interessante. O problema é que, no caso do Brasil, os próprios pais foram afastados do dever paterno deixado pela tradição catolica. Com o passar dos anos, eles foram inconscientemente adotando o modelo de ensino estatal construído pelos esquerdistas e progressistas em geral. Nem mesmo os padres da Igreja tem a sabedoria e a força necessárias para transmitir o verdadeiro dever dos pais, que é o sacrifício dos pais para preservar as almas dos filhos. Os pais não poder dar aos filhos o que nunca receberam, excerto por esforço sobre humano de querer aprender. Mas onde encontrar isso? Quem vai ensinar os pais, especialmente nas famílias que vivem nos subúrbios, a adotar essa mudança radical? Que Deus possa levantar seu povo.
ResponderExcluirAmém, meu amigo.
ExcluirVocê tem toda razão.
Abraço,
Pedro